When you love and accept yourself, it becomes easy to attract and spot others who love and accept themselves also. I’m not saying never try to change the things you are not happy with but until you can change, love and accept who and the way you are. We are all different and we all have flaws, as no one’s perfect, but please remember true beauty come from within. Love yourself enough to want to be the best you.
Holding on to resentment is like lighting yourself on fire and expecting the other person to burn; you are only doing harm to yourself. Forgiveness is the ultimate freedom. That does not mean you accept what was done or not done to you, but you start to replace the resentment with positive grows. It does not serve you to be angry about the things you can’t change. There are a lot of angry people out there, with the why me attitudes but you can’t change the pass, but you can let the pass feelings mess up your future.
It can be hard staying positive when there is a lot happening in your life. But even at your hardest point seek to find the one positive thing and let that be your guiding star. I recently spoke to a young lady who is suffering from cancer; she told me what keeps her going is having the chance to reconnect with friends and family, and every time she felt pain she would reminisce about her last visitor. You have to count your blessings and be grateful for the smallest things.
What people think of you; whether good or bad is not your business. It’s what you think of yourself that count. Wanting people’s approval is just about you really doubting who you are. Focus on success and achieving your goals and let people think what they want.
Love is your passion for the things you want in life, including interests, relationships, and environment. Whenever your heart is open to receive all things positive love will be found when you’re at your most creative. Expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling, love is about acceptance and open-mindedness the more loving energy you reject the more meaningless negative things you attract, and the more love you let in, the more positive thing you will draw to you.